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I don’t think I had good sex until the end of my 20s.
In my early 20s, I and raved about how ~~ my sex life was. I had a ton of it, I about it to my and I felt, like, , baby.
In all , I’m sure I sex life was . But what I now is, I didn’t even know what sex was. I was the high of else on for the high sex.
And while hot and is sexy, sex is far more than your on.
There was a shift in my sex life when I the of my 20s, andI soon there were rules you live by if you to have an sex life.
Maybe you’re like me, and you have a to the word “rules.” it back of in a steel chair after in .
But, babes, the rules I’m about to on you are not the kind of rules you had in high or at your soul- job.
I’m going to give you what my calls a “” with rules. These rules are rules that are going to make your sex life — rules I hard way. (I find out the hard way.)
Sex is never an .
I know this , but do you know how much I I was super young?
If the was , I felt to fuck her. If she was super kind and liked me a lot, I felt to fuck her.
I had sex out of guilt, I had sex to be “nice” and I had sex it just like did.
I felt to have sex, it . You just go the . Your brain is , while your body is else. is .
If you want to have sex it only come from the fact that you feel like sex — that’s it.
Let go of being all the time.
Some of the best sex I’ve ever had has been the most sex I’ve ever had: being into a stall by the girl I’m up with on an night outor going at it on the the of the day.
All of this sex was , so it had an added of — a layer of and .
But I was never in these . And by , I mean .
I had not my legs (or other body parts) that day. I wasn’t my pair of . My hair was a wreck, and I wasn’t or with a dose of .
As I got older, I you have to let go. If you say no to new ( ) you’re not “,” you’re going to miss out on a lot of that make life worth .
as much as .
Every on the will feed the same : “You can’t else to make you feel good until you make feel good.”
I hate to say it, but those smug with their smug ’s in human are right.
The more you get it on with , the you’ll be, and mind- sex is all about being able to . Which leads me to my next rule…
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Never be to to your — in ultra- — what feels good.
Even the most in the world aren’t going to know spot makes your body tick. (And when they do, they’re toxic . I don’t know why the is just like that.)
, , .
When you give time to , you’re your some much- . The new when it’s and wild.
“The new when it’s and wild.”
And when you let , you’ll tap into all the ~~ that get you off, girl.
Let go of you feel sex.
It’s hard to be and not be of your . We’re to feel like sex is we only do to . Andif we enjoy sex, we’re dirty sluts.
But you know what? Maybe we are dirty sluts, but who says being a dirty slut is a thing?
If being a dirty slut means I’m a woman who , has sex she wants and doesn’t her self-worth to how many (or how few) she’s slept with, then I’m happy and proud to be a dirty slut! “I’m happy and proud to be a dirty slut.”
So let go of the shame, girl. The only has into for being is of how your is.
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Just of your , doesn’t mean you have to be. Own it. Rock it. it. Once you part of , you more in every other part of your life. And trust me, no one fucks with girls who own their .
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